We engage in life, business, marriage and other infinite endeavors. You participate and you do your best. If you see the journey as a finite game, after a seeming victory - there is the next battle, and the next. We should rather see our challenges as hurdles to overcome, as inherent parts of our journeys; as ways to build knowledge and mastery. As parts of the journey towards our just cause. We can't see the end of the journey, there is no clear outcome and there are no defined rules to guide us as to what it means to win.